Being a Dad is one of lifes greatest experience I believe. It's rewarding, challenging, demanding, confusion, gut renching, amazing and I could go on and on.
Some Dads didn't plan on it, some did and some wish they hadn't. You may fit into all of these catigories. The upside of being a Dad is enormous and if you're here researching who I am and then you'll see that I am you and nothing more. I've made plenty, if not all the mistakes you can being a Dad, but I wouldn't change it for the world.